When a man is young, he chooses his wife or girlfriend by looking at the body figure and face, regardless of her character and temperament. When men are in their middle-aged, he will find that the beauty of a woman is not in appearance, but in tolerance. A good-tempered personality, especially a woman who can be coquettish, once coquettish to a man’s death point is to hit the weakness of the man’s heart. At this time, even if she wants a man to die, the man will smile and be content. The expression is calm and righteous.
A woman who can act like a baby is the most beautiful, and a woman who can act like a baby can make a successful man. Many successful men in the society have such a beautiful woman who knows how to act like a baby and how to inspire men.
A philosopher told a man:
“As long as you know how to praise your wife for her beautiful old clothes, she won’t be arguing about buying new clothes. Kiss your wife in the eyes and she will become blind.
A smart woman as long as he knows how to praise her husband for his talents, he will work harder. Give him a cute hug, and he won’t be rough. Give him a kiss on the mouth, and he won’t speak bad words. The family is not the Legislative place, and there is no need to make long speeches and reason, let alone to be red-faced, as long as you know how to be coquettish and considerate, you can enjoy family happiness. Smart woman, why not do it?
NO. 1 A good marriage must have love, she is the woman you love
It is not necessary for a woman to find a man she loves, but it is better for a man to choose a woman he loves to marry. If it is the person you love, you will take responsibility for her in your marriage, and you will spoil her very much even if the previous relationship is not deep, you will gradually become emotional.
A woman will fall in love with a man because of his goodness, and a man may not fall in love with a woman because of his goodness.
NO. 2 A good girl with a lot of thoughts, able to be independent and able to take care of herself in life
With a woman who has ideas, you will find life interesting. And when a woman is very motivated, it will also encourage you to continuously improve yourself. Girls should not be too idle and have their own ideas. At the same time, they can take care of themselves in life and are relatively independent financially.
No.3 Beauty is not the most important thing, but she makes you feel very comfortable
Some men look for their wives and care about their appearance, but I want to say that mature men know that “marry a wife who has good personality is important.” Appearance is not the most important thing, just look comfortable.
In fact, love and marriage pay attention to the two words “comfort”. You will not feel oppressive when you are together, but it is natural. This feeling is very good. The feeling you are together determines the quality of life after marriage.
To know that marriage is to live a life, to get along with others, or to choose a girl who can make you very comfortable.
No.4 Women also have to be responsible and know how to grow
There are many places where women need to grow up in marriage. For example, after pregnancy and childbirth, women will inevitably be tired in the marriage. At this time, you must realize that “I am a mother, and then I have to bear the responsibility of being a mother.”
A girl with princess disease cannot marry, and you will be very tired. Only when both of you take the responsibility can your marriage last longer.
NO.6 Can respect you financially and trust you at the same time
There are many women in marriage who like to manage money, but in fact, the two people still have to discuss money. Men should let women have the right to know money, and women should also give men a certain degree of economic autonomy. After all, it’s really hard for a man to use it without money.
No. 7 Don’t expect to marry a wife as a “nanny”
Some men’s thoughts are not correct at all, and they give everything to their wives as soon as they get married. I want to say that when you marry a wife, you are not here to take care of you and be your “nanny”. You have to treat your wife well to get the respect and love of others.
Conclusion:
To find a good woman to marry isn’t a easy task, you need to have patience, to understand her more before marriage, dating a girl is not difficult, but to get married is another story.
