Dating Ideas: 8 Topics to Talk About After Meeting in Speed Dating
How to chat on your phone after the speed date? After getting to know the girl through an introduced by a friend, add the contact after the date, and then show your high emotional intelligence to chat, so that the girl can be quickly attracted to you. Many boys have no sense of direction, and do not know how to control the proportion of chatting. They either can’t talk to a place, or they can’t make girls happy, and the atmosphere of getting along can’t be opened. What should I do? Please read the content of this article carefully, I hope to help you.
1. Daily life
The primary purpose of chatting is to understand the blind date object’s hobbies, living habits, diet, emotional concepts, etc., in order to find common topics. You can also chat about some familiar people or things, which makes it easier to chat. But don’t talk nonsense, talk about valuable things, show your good side, and guide girls to become interested in you.
2. Leisure and entertainment you like
Do you like dancing? Do you like sports? Like watching movies or the music of that person? From the casual entertainment that the other person usually likes, you can immediately know whether the two of you are in harmony! More importantly, if the two of you have similar interests, Could open up another more in-depth topic for you.
Each of us has our own comfort zone, in which we enjoy and relax a lot. Similarly, you should also let blind date girls achieve this state of enjoyment and relaxation in chatting. Then comfort requires us to use skills such as “introducing curiosity, giving roles, bringing in scripts, creating transitions, and creating expectations”.
4. What are you doing on weekends?
It’s a really great topic, not only can you find out what he’s really like when he’s not at work (not at work, when he has a bunch of free time), but also how he organizes his life, but also a bit suggestive,” says Maybe we can do something together on weekends?”
If you’re dating at a restaurant or bar, it’s a pleasant conversation to talk about your favorite delicacies. When talking about food, not only will you get to know her tastes and find common ground, but you will never have to worry about running out of topics again.
If she has a knack for it, don’t miss the opportunity to compliment her first, then ask her, “I’m drooling when I hear it, let me have a feast for the day.” Even if she knows you’re complimenting her, she’ll appreciate it. If you have one too, don’t forget to invite her to taste your craft.
6. Working condition
If you’ve been working for a while since college, it’s a good topic to talk about work. However, you have to control the initiative, don’t let her keep talking about some trivial things in life, she will be more and more unhappy, and you will be more and more impatient.
However, most people talk about work, even if it is boring, it will be hype. It doesn’t matter, you can at least know that she will be a workaholic and a good housewife in the future.
What places of interest have you been to before? She is happy to answer this question, and she will not be wary. In order to let her open the conversation, you ask her to introduce you again. As long as you are a loyal listener, she will quickly develop a favorable impression of you. At this time, you can be more proactive and ask her where else she wants to go. If she says that so-and-so has always wanted to go, your chance to show will come. Say bravely, “I’ve always wanted to go there too. Let’s go together someday, let’s make our dreams come true?” She’ll happily accept your invitation. In fact, after talking about this, you have learned a lot about her background, interests and hobbies.
8. Don’t talk about your parents when you first meet
Today, I will introduce the taboo words on blind date: talk about your parents as little as possible during blind date, why? Too much talk will make the other party feel that you are not mature enough, and secondly, you will feel insecure with you, if it is a man, you will talk to 24 If you are connected with filial piety, if a woman is the one who will support the king in the family in the future. To sum up one sentence: If you want to fail the blind date early, then move your parents out. Nine of the ten sentences are parents, and the tenth sentence is that you have a relationship with them. Contact. Congratulations, you will definitely be out.
