A few details need to be careful when dating the girl you like
We have all faced the embarrassing situation of having a “first date” with a male friend. If you find that this man is not suitable for you, it’s fine, but sometimes you are clearly interested in him, but it is always ruined by “excessive restraint”, “atmosphere” Embarrassment” or “I can’t find a topic at all”, you know in your heart that if you meet a few more times, you will be able to chat more, but sometimes the luck just run away.
1. Improve the appearance and transform yourself.
In the view of seniors, personal image building is the first and necessary item for dating. Just imagine, a woman who is well-dressed and a woman who does not care about her self-image and does not wear makeup, which one do you prefer on a date.
The same is true for men, bathing and changing clothes, replacing the jackets that have been unchanged for thousands of years, and putting on clean, neat and generous clothes. Get a bouncy hairstyle, trim your eyebrows, especially your slender nose hair, and trim it carefully. Spray on the right perfume, the body wafts a light fragrance. Just like a handsome man!
2. Where to go on a date?
When many young brothers mention going on a date with their sister, the first thing that comes to mind is to eat and watch movies. Oh my God, do you want to be so old-fashioned, everyone is a promising young man in the 21st century, please don’t live so nostalgic.
It’s too old-fashioned to watch a movie and eat. There is no surprise for the sister paper. First of all, you need to find out what sister paper likes, from her friends or according to some of her social software, such as Moments, to see what sister paper usually likes to do!
3. What to do on a date?
First of all, the first date is not suitable for eating and watching movies, because your relationship has not yet reached this stage, you have to let the girl think that you have no ambition, and the sister paper will be happy to go to the date.
Secondly, choose more activities that are highly interactive with girls on the first date. It has been scientifically proven that when men and women do something together, their hormonal state is at their most active. Coupled with uninterrupted physical contact, this When two people are more likely to erase the spark, the relationship is more likely to be pulled in. Just imagine how two people take part in a mission together. After you win through your efforts, are both sides happily hugging each other?
4. What to take the girl to eat? Smart people make multiple choice questions.
Girls are often taught to be reserved, and the first time they promise to eat with you, they will appear elegant and connotative. If the girl is really not reserved, she will book a five-star restaurant. This kind of restaurant is very expensive, and it will charge you a service fee, whether you agree or not.
In fact, another way of thinking is that a casual girl is a sensible girl. But the casualness in the girl’s mouth is waiting for you to ask multiple-choice questions. Do you want to eat spicy or not? What flavor do you want to eat? Are there any particular taboos you like? If sister paper is really difficult to choose, you can also recommend good cuisine and good dishes to sister paper.
It would be even better if you could secretly learn about sister paper’s preferences, and take her to eat directly, but it would give her a nice surprise.
5. More important than price is the environment.
Came to the restaurant with sister paper, as a gentleman, you must naturally take the initiative to pull a chair for sister paper, remember not to act so deliberately, to be natural, as if you are so elegant from beginning to end. The pulled out chair must be suitable for the height and weight of the sister paper, so as to prevent the sister paper from falling to the ground in a short position, which would be embarrassing.
Next, you have to hand over the menu to the sister paper with elegant hands. Remember not to use one hand, but also to throw the sister paper at random. This will make you appear to be very considerate and considerate. He is a careful big boy. When you are on a date, maybe your action only lasts for three seconds, and in the eyes of the sister, it is playing at an infinite slow speed.
6. These small details during meals will constantly give you extra points.
Good things to share, such as which dish you think is particularly delicious, you can give it to her; when sister paper has half of the water left in the cup, take the initiative to ask the waiter to come over to add water, don’t wait for sister paper to finish drinking water before adding it , because the sister paper is drunk and added, it will make her think that you are not very careful; you must find a reason to settle the bill in the middle, so as to avoid the sister paper to pay the bill later.
7. Talk less and listen more is the principle.
When dating, remember to keep chatting with your sister about topics that your sister is not interested in. This is more serious than the cold scene. If you really don’t know how to chat, keep the principle of talking less and listening more. Guide the girl to talk more, so that you can take the opportunity to learn some secrets of the girl and relieve embarrassment.
8. Don’t force it, let it flow.
The most important thing in the first date is not to force yourself and the other party. You are both free and you are not restrained by any contract, so if you really find that each other is not suitable for lovers, treat him as an ordinary friend The daily dinner is not harmful, in short, everything is fine. Maybe you can finally find yourself able to chat with each other more relaxed and comfortable, and being aggressive is always useless, but will make your demeanor greatly deduct points in the other party’s heart!
