How can I quickly see the character of a man during Speed dating?
The most important thing for a speed date is to understand each other’s economic conditions, character within a short period of time. It will take months or even years to fully understand a person, but when we meet for the first time, we can roughly see a man’s character based on his clothes and actions.
I have a friend who sells in an electronic goods store. Once I was passing by and chatting with her, when a man came in, she said that this person should be able to buy, and then hurriedly greeted him, and when I came back when the goods were sold out, I asked her how she could tell. She said: ” In winter, I wear so little, at least I came by car. I have been looking at the goods, and there must be a need.” Of course, this is just a little bit of their sales experience for many years. But people are really born from the heart, and their character can be expressed externally.
1. Look at one’s hairstyle
Generally, short hair or hair that sags naturally is a kind of office worker. This kind of hair is easy to take care of. It doesn’t take much time to take care of the hair every morning, just a simple rinse. The hair is long and blown. Men who turn up are generally more outgoing. They spend a lot of time styling their hair, value their own image, and love to chat with the opposite sex. Most boys with dyed hair are younger, stylish and full of vigor, but it also shows that he is not mature.
2. Look at one’s clothes.
People who dress casually or more business are more serious, traditional in their hearts, and don’t like to be unconventional. They are generally in the struggling period of their careers, and their personality is easy-going and easy to get along with. Wearing sports styles are cheerful and generous, playful and healthy. Fashionable people like to show their own uniqueness by dressing up on the outside, but they are superficial on the inside and immature on the inside. People in formal clothes have achieved career success, mature and respectful, with a relatively strong personality, and like girls who are in the shape of a bird. Some people say that if it is a blind date, many people will wear suits, but a person who does not wear suits often is easy to see, because he will feel more rigid and uncomfortable, and will often adjust the position of his clothes.
3. Look at a person’s cell phone
A mobile phone is something that everyone comes into contact with every day in modern life. The value of a mobile phone can easily be seen from the appearance and brand of a mobile phone. Observe whether there is a shell on his mobile phone, the pattern of the shell can also tell a person’s personality. People with a smart and open-minded personality will not use a mobile phone case. Even if it has a single color, there is no pattern. The heart with cartoon or animal patterns is relatively young. People who use some particularly conspicuous or individual patterns must also like it in life.” Swagger over the city”.
4. Look at one’s glasses
Wearing glasses used to be a sign of intellectuals, but now many people wear glasses. For example, many men who pursue trends and think that they are handsome have a big black frame with a flat lens inside; while typical intellectuals usually have a very thin frame with thick and thick inside. Lens, often inadvertently hold the glasses with his hand. Needless to say, the personality, intellectuals all give people a very introverted, very honest feeling. They have certain skills at work, but sometimes they also like to be tricky.
5. Look at one’s watch.
As mobile phones become a necessity in our lives, watches seem to be gradually replaced, but as one of the few jewelry for men, watches are still a must for many men. A person who does not wear a watch is either a person with poor economic conditions, or a person who does not have much culture and starts his own business. Those who wear sports watches must be young people, office workers, outgoing and lively. And the inner mature and stable will generally choose mechanical watches. Many people can see the value of a watch at a glance, and this can also see the person’s economic conditions.
In Conclusion
A person’s character will be perfectly reflected in appearance, from dress to every move, this cannot be concealed. Everyone has their own unique personality. Clothes that don’t fit their own style will feel awkward no matter how they use the items. This has nothing to do with economic conditions. Just like you can see people driving luxury cars squatting on the side of the road and eating barbecue, but You rarely see a man in a suit squatting on the side of the road drinking beer and eating skewers, because it doesn’t fit his style.
