How to Find a Good Wife – 10 Most Important Factors for Man to Look For a Good Woman
Many men want to marry a good wife. A a friend of mine, who was single until 35 years old. At the beginning, we would introduce him to our girl friends, but later we were too lazy to introduce it, because he is “too picky”. He is 35 years old. Although he has a car, a house and a good job, it is not easy to find a suitable woman. He is afraid of girls being too young and also doesn’t want to find a girl who is older than him. All in all, he has been choosing a good woman to be his wife from 2013 to 2019. My husband and I are already married and our baby is almost two years old. He is still single and has not found a suitable one.
I asked him, “What kind of woman do you want to be your wife?”
He said: “I want to find a good wife and mother who is also motivated. It’s best to have a better appearance.”
Hearing this, I gave up directly to help him introduce a girlfriend. Everything is relative, so is marriage, and his requirements for his future partner are also relatively vague. Besides, good feelings are cultivated, not from the beginning.
What kind of woman is a good wife? In my opinion, you must first be a good man to be able to marry a good woman as a wife. Otherwise, even a good woman will be ruined by you into a “resent woman.”
In marriage, men and women also influence each other and complement each other, instead of “you are good, I am bad.”
If a man wants to marry a good wife, it also depends on whether he is a good man.
There is a saying that makes sense: what kind of woman a man marries often determines his quality of life after marriage.
NO.1 a good marriage must have love, she is the woman you love
It is not necessary for a woman to find a man she loves, but it is best for a man to choose a woman she loves to marry. If it is the person you love, you will take responsibility for her in the marriage, and you will spoil her very much. Even if the previous relationship is not deep, you will gradually become better couples.
A woman will fall in love with a man because of his goodness, and a man may not fall in love with a woman because of his goodness.
For example, a man married a girl under the arrangement of his parents. After the marriage, the woman did a lot to please him, but there was no response at all. A trivial life will only make men hate women’s efforts even more. Even after giving birth, the man still thinks about the girl who was taken apart by her parents. In this kind of marriage, it is easy for a man to betray the marriage.
Because when he doesn’t love you, he doesn’t realize how wrong he is to betray you. Because he doesn’t love, he will feel that cheating is a matter of course, and there will be no guilt at all.
It is best for a man to marry a woman you love, because once he loves, he will think about the person in charge and treat her well.
NO.2 When a man marries a wife, he must also value a woman’s character
Whether it is a woman looking for a husband or a man marrying a wife, character is very important. How are you going to see a girl’s character? What kind of person is it. How is her temper? What is your personality? Is she so strong and self-reliant? Is she a person who can take care of herself? Is she jealous and love to compare?
Wait, all aspects must be understood clearly when falling in love.
If a girl has a bad character and a vicious heart, I think such a girl may not be liked, but disgusting.
Men still have to be smarter and don’t be fooled by some girls who are good at pretending.
NO.3 The appearance is not the most important thing, but she makes you feel very comfortable
Some men care about their appearance when looking for a wife, but I want to say that mature men know that “marry a wife should marry a good one.” Appearance is not the most important thing, just look comfortable is fine.
In fact, love and marriage pay attention to the two words “comfort”. You will not feel oppressive when you are together, but it is natural. This feeling is very good. The feeling you are together determines the quality of life after marriage.
To know that marriage is to live a life, to get along with others, or to choose a girl who can make you very comfortable.
NO.4 A good girl with a lot of thoughts, able to be independent and able to take care of herself in life
With a woman who has ideas, you will find life interesting. And when a woman is very motivated, it will also encourage you to continuously improve yourself. Girls should not be too idle and have their own ideas. At the same time, they can take care of themselves in life and are relatively independent financially.
Such women tend to be more sensible. If you are a good man, then your lives will complement each other.
NO.5 Don’t look for someone with disagreement, don’t have a temper
If you are impatient, it is best to find someone who has a slower temper. If two people are very anxious, naturally there will be a lot of troubles.
Take me personally. I am a woman who loses the temper easily, and then my husband will not lose his temper. The two of us quarreled, and it was more about me fighting alone, and there was no way to quarrel at all.
Men and women whose tempers are not too similar will be easier to get along with each other. Often they are too similar, so many things happen.
No. 6 The mother-in-law is very sensible and the family style is very good
The mother-in-law is sensible, and her daughter’s relationship path is mostly smooth. However, the influence of the mother-in-law in China is only before marriage.
If you have a wise mother-in-law, most of the daughters will not be too bad. The role of a woman in a family is especially important. When you marry a wife, you should marry a virtuous person. A woman’s knowledge determines the man’s attitude towards life in the future.
A sensible mother-in-law cannot be wrong with the daughter she teaches.
NO. 7 Women must also have a sense of responsibility and know how to grow
There are many places where women need to grow up in marriage. For example, after pregnancy and childbirth, women will inevitably be tired in the marriage. At this time, you must realize that “I am a mother, and then I have to bear the responsibility of being a mother.”
A girl with princess disease cannot marry, and you will be very tired. Only when both of you take responsibility can your marriage last longer.
NO. 8 I can respect you financially and trust you at the same time
There are many women in marriage who like to manage money, but in fact, the two people still have to discuss money. Men should let women have the right to know money, and women should also give men a certain degree of economic autonomy. After all, it is really difficult for a man to live without money.
No. 9 Don’t expect to marry a wife as a “nanny”
Some men’s thoughts are not correct at all. They leave everything to their wives as soon as they get married. I want to say that when you marry a wife, you should not treat your wife to be your “nanny”. You have to treat your wife well to get the respect and love of others.
It is mutual at all times.
No. 10 A girl who can talk to you
There is something to say in marriage that is very important. If you can talk, many things will be easier to communicate. Girls who can talk to you often know you better.
