6 Reasons Why don’t Men Want to Chase Girls Anymore?

Why don’t men want to chase girls anymore? Do you want girls to chase after you? There are 30 million more men than women. If a man does not actively pursue a woman, he may end up alone as a bachelor. When I was studying, boys pursued me, and when I first went out to work, boys pursued me. After that, fewer and fewer men actively pursued me. I don’t understand what men think now. Is it because of the pressure of life that they don’t have the heart to chase girls, or are they already lying flat? I asked the male colleagues of the company with this question. The answers of several male colleagues were similar. The reasons why boys are unwilling to chase girls are very realistic. They are roughly the following six reasons:

The First Reason:

The pressure of life is high, and the cost of chasing girls is getting higher and higher. Yes, now the prices are getting higher and higher, it will cost two or three hundred yuan to invite a girl out for dinner and watch a movie. Now there are more men than women, and women have become picky. Sometimes many men pursue a woman, and women will be very proud of them, and they will pick and choose among these men to see which man shows sincerity. This so-called Sincerity may be based on what the man invited her to eat, what he gave her as a gift, and what the man did when she needed help. If the woman was satisfied, he might agree the man to be his girlfriend or wife. The other men that the woman didn’t fancy were working in vain. Their money is spent, time is spent, and feelings are invested. It was empty in the end. The man knows that the girl now can coax her into her hands without being rude. If you do not have a certain economic strength, you will not easily chase girls. So this is the first reason why men are scared of chasing women, financial problems!

The Second Reason:

Nowadays, work is so busy most of the time, a man working in a first-tier city, going to work more than 10 hours a day, and finally taking a break on weekends, the only thing men want to do is to rest instead of going out with girls and entertain them. Work makes people physically and mentally exhausted, and they don’t have the heart to chase girls. Nowadays, the society is not very friendly to men. It is difficult to find a job. The boss may make things difficult for them. Men can only keep their jobs if they work hard. In this case, men are trying to rest more instead of chasing girls when they get free time.

The Third Reason:

The threshold for marriage is high, the price of the bride price is high, and women always ask for a bride price of 100,000 or 200,000 yuan. They also need to have a car, a house and savings. If the boy is from a rural family, it is difficult to come out with the bride price, even more so. You have a car, a house, and savings. So now many boys are a little scared when they hear about getting married. They feel that they are not marrying a wife but buying a wife. Some boys would rather be single if they were not urged by their family to pass on the family.

The Fourth Reason:

Be hurt before, and not dared to make any progress. My colleague said that his predecessor, he chased her for more than a year, and he would express blessings and give gifts to her on any festival. The girls maintained an attitude of not taking the initiative, not rejecting, and not being responsible. It is the first time to ask a girl if she can be his girlfriend? The girl always answers politely and give her some time. It’s too soon to be sure if I like him or not. A relationship requires serious consideration to decide. My colleague couldn’t wait, and then a showdown with the girls. What my colleague didn’t expect was that I later heard that this girl was with a boy who had known each other for less than two months. My colleague almost fainted with anger. It turned out that the girl said it was false to think about it, and it was true to ride a donkey to find a horse. My colleagues are now very afraid of getting hurt again, and now they dare not take the initiative to chase girls.

The Fifth Reason:

Misunderstood what the girl meant, thinking that I had no chance. When many girls are chased by boys, they will worry that the boy does not really love them, so they will set up many tests on his way to pursue him to verify whether he is sincere. It is a good idea to set up a few tests. This can indeed filter out some men who do not really love you and come to pursue you. But for many boys, if they encounter too many obstacles set up by girls in the process of pursuit, they will It made him feel that when the girl didn’t like him, he was rejecting him euphemistically, so he became reluctant to chase, and even stopped chasing after half of it, thinking that he had no chance.

The Sixth Reason:

Chasing to the end with nothing. As the status of men in love and marriage is getting lower and lower, many boys are afraid or even unwilling to fall in love, and are no longer willing to be a dog without dignity in front of girls. For them, chasing girls seems to be a nightmare. They greet girls like a dog and surrender their sincerity, but what they get in return is the ruthlessness and indifference of girls. In the end, licking a dog has nothing. In a couple, there will be no boys who want to chase girls.

The Seventh Reason:

Parental pressure of girls. After being with a girl, parents may also put a lot of pressure on boys, financial pressure, and some other pressures. We seem to like to compare more and more. Some girls’ parents often compare girls’ boyfriends with other boys. Compared with friends, the duty boys are not doing well enough. Boys and girls will be under a lot of pressure together. In the long run, the relationship between the two sides will become discordant. Boys feel that having a girlfriend is not as comfortable as being single alone, so more and more boys are reluctant to find a girlfriend.

The Eighth Reason: 

Women are becoming more and more obsessed. People say that men are obsessed, but women in society are becoming more and more obsessive. They may date several boys, and they will choose the best among them. Women’s care will make men feel conflicted and unwilling to spend money and time with them and pursue girls. Some boys know that they have become a spare tire, and they will be hit psychologically, so they are not in the mood to chase other women.